How to Become an Alpha Male

How to Become an Alpha Male

Dating women is easy, I’ve learned and discovered thanks to this book, as long as you’ve got the confidence and alpha male mindset–plus if you know the basics of how to carry on a simple conversation and have good body language (such as not be hunched over with your eyes cast downward). This book helped me out so tremendously it’s one of those few books that has had an absolutely profound impact on my life. I date the woman of my dreams right now. The sex with her is great, and it’s a relationship on MY terms, so it’s not like in the past where I was the beta puppydog always jumping to serve her. We will get married. And I owe it all to this book, but more of course to myself for following the advice this book gave me.

I used to be a complete loser, and I decided to get How to Become an Alpha Male and do what it says. Based on reviews I’d seen of it here and elsewhere it appeared to be one of those hidden gems. And those reviews were right.

A lot of books require a lot of hard work. I never wanted to be any sort of big player mackdaddy, I just wanted to meet a wonderful woman and date her and love her (and have her love me). Which I have now thanks to this book. How to Become an Alpha Male distills everything down to the basics. It begins by explaining about female psychology, exploding a lot of myths like that you need to be a jerk, or that you need to spend a lot of money on women, or that women don’t like sex as much as men do. (In fact, as this book explains, and as I’ve later found out thru experience, women love sex just like we men do!)

The book goes on to explain how to read a woman’s non-verbal signals, and then step by step how to have your own good non-verbal signals that are those of an attractive alpha male.
It then talks about how to build your self-confidence using affirmations and self hynosis. I’ve been doing them like mad and they work. Today I’m a much happier person and confident, and, importantly, that confidence comes from within. Even if I didn’t have my wonderful girlfriend today, I’d still be every bit as content. Though I love her, I don’t NEED her, as this book has taught me.

And that’s the great thing about this–it’s not just for getting women, but for your life in general.

John Alexander then explains the easy way of how to talk to women, what to say, and topics to talk about. I used to be shy but everything in here is very doable. Also the book explains how to have sex with a woman on the very first date. And Alexader’s right that the best way to get a woman into a relationship with you is to have sex with her right away, not to wait. Alexander also has some chapters that are tremendous on how to expand your social circle (since most people meet through their network of friends rather than cold approaching) and on maintaining a relationship so that the passion grows with time and the two of you never argue or have any drama.